Sunday evening, I spent in something of a poorly hidden panic, as Maya complained of a persistent headache and when asked, mentioned it hurt her back when she tried to touch her chin to her chest. For those of you who are not medical, this can be a sign of meningitis, so I monitored her carefully, and checked on her every 1-2 hours through the night. She’s fine. Probably just a viral illness, which she now seems to have mostly kicked. The only highlight was that it gave Eric and me an opportunity to introduce her to the creepy song by Ween: “Spinal Meningitis Gets Me Down”. Check it out if you’re not already a Ween fan.
Monday marked the beginning of the actual ESOG meeting, and I was on a panel discussing reproductive health in Ethiopia. I was tasked with presenting a perspective on global reproductive health as relates to Ethiopia, and I shared the stage with some really interesting speakers. There was the Director of the Adama District Health Bureau, a former Ethiopian Supreme Court Judge, a disabilities rights activist, and an ESOG board member. I was questioned about the Global Gag Rule and how Ethiopian national health policies shouldn’t be so tied to whomever is in the White House, given how disruptive it is to broadly-reaching health care provision. I could only really say “sorry” and to recommend they tell all their friends and family in the US to keep that in mind when they vote in November!
The most inspiring moment of ESOG for me was definitely the awards presentations. Particularly the Lifetime Community Service award. Dr. Munir Kassa from the MOH presented the award to Mame with the following story. Mame grew up in a very rural village in the North of Ethiopia approximately 75 years ago. She had zero formal education. She was married at 14 to a man she met on her wedding night and soon after was pregnant. Her husband was kind, and she was happy. When she went into labor, something was wrong. After 4 days of labor, a birth attendant was able to come and help facilitate her delivery of a stillborn infant. Unfortunately, the trauma of the obstructed labor caused Mame to have a fistula between her bladder and her vagina, and she had no control over urination. This is relatively common in Ethiopia, as an adolescent pelvis often cannot accommodate a term pregnancy. Unfortunately, due to the dysfunction and smell, women with fistulas were and are often ostracized and/or neglected in their communities. Mame was lucky and her sister lived in Addis Ababa, where there was a new Fistula hospital built and operated by the Doctors Hamlin, Reg and Catherine, who were both OBGYNs, from New Zealand and Australia, respectively. More on them and the Hamlin Fistula Hospital in a moment. Mame made her way there and was able to have her corrective surgery. While she was recovering, she made herself useful in whatever ways were needed; cleaning the wards, washing the laundry, cooking for the other patients. Eventually she worked her way up to more exacting jobs, and soon was processing instruments and working as a nurse’s aide. Eventually she was a surgical assistant to the Hamlins, as well as translator (as they didn’t speak Amharic). By the 1980’s, she was primarily operating on most of the women coming with fistulas. Not only that, but OBGYN residents from around Ethiopia began rotating through Hamlin Hospital to learn how to do fistula repair and Mame, this woman with absolutely no formal education, has now taught several generations of Ethiopian OBGYNs how to repair a fistula. Mame never went back to live in her village, telling her husband she found her calling at the Fistula Hospital. Mame, now about 75 years old, and about 4 foot 2 inches tall, was present at the ESOG meeting on Monday. Every OBGYN there adores her. She not only was given the service award but was made an honorary member of ESOG – a lovely and fitting tribute to this amazing woman. See some of the attached photos of this emotional event.